In anexclusive interview with The List, she shared the relationship advice she would have given her younger self.

It was her first serious relationship, she explained, so she didn’t know any better.

We do this in relationships, especially our first couple relationships, our young relationships."

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“Boy, there’s a lot I would tell myself.

Thus, a related piece of advice for her younger self would be to listen to that inner voice.

“I would say, ‘When that girl starts talking, you listen.

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You don’t invalidate those feelings.

Don’t cast those needs aside for anybody else.

“My Own Magic” will be available from HarperCollins on May 16.

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