But there are certain styles of arguing that could have damaging effects on a developing relationship over time.
Ones where contempt comes into play and can turn lovers into enemies.
Researchersconsidercontempt to be one of “The Four Horseman,” or toxic behavioral patterns, in relationships.
Examples of contempt include mocking someone, sarcasm, making condescending remarks, rolling your eyes, and more.
Any form of contempt in a relationship can be harmful and cause the romance to eventually die out.
“It becomes a habit.
You start giving yourself permission to act a certain way with your partner.”
If you’re noticing signs of contempt in your relationship, there are ways to take action.
For example, “I feel ignored when you’re rolling your eyes when I’m speaking.”
Honesty could help your partner better understand your concern and offer empathy rather than criticism.
Relationship experts even note the accountability that comes with talking things out with your spouse.
It might be time to do the necessary soul searching that could be the underlying factor of your frustrations.
Choosing peace rather than festering on the frustrations of a situation.
The fondness could reset your appreciation for your spouse and reignite the spark that contempt might’ve fizzled out.
