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Keeping a marriage alive is a lot of work.

Add to that the challenges of child rearing, financial responsibilities, and maintaining in-laws and social circles.

Three people at the beach

This rhythm, however, is more of a challenge for some than others.

The answer might be disappointing

If the ironic and condescending term RBAMP (meaning “Relationship Broken.

The rules themselves could become a source of conflict for a marriage that’s already struggling, adds Powell.

Three girls in open relationship

Adding that dynamic to a marriage that is already strained is not a good idea.

When is a good time for an open relationship?

Try couples counseling or reaching out to trusted friends and family to see if that helps.

People holding hands

Do you want more sex?

Do you want a sense of freedom to act on your urges?

Open relationships are just as hard as monogamous unions, if not more challenging.

Attempting to add that dynamic into your relationship should be a carefully thought-out and mutually agreed-upon decision.