The two dated for seven years, and it was love at first sight for the singer.

… As soon as he opened the car door I was like, ‘I love him.'"

“Tony was my first real boyfriend and I was tragically obsessed with him,” she toldVariety.

Gwen Stefani and Tony Kanal

“He wasn’t even interested.

When we made out that first night, I think he thought it was more of a one-night kiss.

Even after their relationship dissolved, the No Doubt frontwoman remained attached to her ex.

young Gwen Stefani and Tony Kanal

“When we broke up, I still forced Tony to kiss me,” she admitted to Spin.

“I was in denial.

I might have lost the title of girlfriend, but in my eyes we were still together.

No Doubt performing in 1996

He didn’t have to do anything, but whenhefelt like it, I was there.

It was horrible.”

That’s the real deal.

No Doubt performing in 2015

That’s our lives, and that’s what was happening to us at that time.

It was so brutal but I don’t know how we made it through.”

But at this point, we’re just two very good friends in a band.

And it’s such a miracle that you and me are still good friends.

After all that we’ve been through, I know we’re cool").

Then he broke up with me and we became friends."