We all have certain traits or habits that we perceive as flaws.
“Ugh, why am I like this?!”
is a feeling we all experience at one point or another.
Are you ready to embrace your flaws?
Then, by all means, read on.
Being able to voice your needs is a positive trait, Minaa B. writes, not a negative one.
It means you are self-aware enough to know what they are, and to communicate it.
Nerdiness is cool
Gone are the days of feeling ashamed of your nerdy characteristics.
These days, nerdiness is ubercool, especially when you’re of the male species, experts say.
Relationship expert and therapist Dr. Jane Greer shares Masini’s views.
“The geek is the epitome of intelligence.
This in itself is already pretty attractive.
So if you got it, flaunt it.
For one, people will likely trust you more.
A2010 studypublished in Personality and Individual Differences found that honest people tend to have healthier relationships.
This might seem counterintuitive since complete honesty can often lead to disagreements.
So, “good” gossip has the potential to make someone more trustworthy and help them forge friendships.
If you have a tendency to gossip, verify it’s the good, caring kind.
Here’s the thing: Oversharing a little bit can actually draw people closer to you.
This can deepen friendships, romantic relationships, and even working relationships.
It can, in fact, be a very attractive trait.
While none us of like appearing vulnerable, Rapini says it’s a great trait. "
… [W]hen you make yourself vulnerable to others, others like you more.
They’re more drawn to you,” she says in aYouTube video.
She adds that the genuineness embarrassment shows is incredibly attractive to most people.
The study also discovered that people are more likely to want to associate with individuals who show embarrassment.
Well, what do you know?
Next time, let that red glow shine in all its glory and allow it to work its magic.
While you might perceive it as a flaw, others might find it attractive.
Rapini adds that shy people tend to encourage trust from others.
Because they’re usually on the quieter side, they’re also much better listeners.
This can make them very attractive not just to potential friends but to potential romantic partners as well.
It’s quite ironic when you think about it, but it’s true.
Shyness is your secret weapon.
Now go ahead and use it.
She adds that clumsiness communicates vulnerability, and people are naturally drawn to others who appearvulnerable.
The effect clumsiness has on those who observe it in another person is referred to as the Pratfall Effect.
It was first studied in 1966 by psychologist Elliot Aronson, according to an article published byBrescia University.
When you think of celebrities, for example, they appear almost superhuman.
Suddenly, they’re just like us, and it instantly makes them more likable.
The same goes for ordinary folks.
According toVerywell Mind, being able to laugh at yourself can make you appear more confident.
So, laugh away, friends.
Yup, gents, you no longer need to hold onto the idea that men don’t cry.
It’s not a flaw it’s a very attractive trait.
