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Hoping to buy the perfect gift for your mother?

Best to steer clear of household items so as not to imply certain expectations or stereotypes.

Woman giving her mother a gift, orange background

So why buy a vacuum?

Think about something your mom has mentioned, but would never buy for herself.

Coupons don’t cut it anymore

We know, we know.

wire basket filled with cleaning products

This one was a big hit when you were in 3rd grade.

Pick a restaurant she loves, or a spa she’s always want to try.

Don’t offer unsolicited advice with a self-help book

Yes, books can make for great presents.

woman with daughter holding “gift voucher” coupon; orange background

But take care to choose an appropriate title, one that doesn’t imply anything, well, offensive.

A title like “How to Make Friends as an Adult” may send the wrong message.

As noted byThe Guardian, books often signal the gift-givers taste rather than the receiver’s.

hand holding up yellow “Self help” book in library

Consider wheresheshops most frequently, and buy her a gift card for a brand she already loves.

Consider mom-founded (mom-approved) clothing brands likeLain Snow, reviewed highly byForbes.

Alternatively,the Strategistrecommends replacing that classic candle with incense.

person with colorful bags holding up “gift cards”

It’s often described asone of their worst scents of all-time.

So, if you’re looking to buy asignthat reads “Your mother isn’t here …

So clean up after yourself,” consider the implications.

yellow and white candles, both burning. gray throw blanket in background

A personalized present goes a long way.

“Put away your laundry” on distressed wood background; mirror border