Shapewear or lingerie

Shapewear is a holiday gift you should never buy a friend.

Unless you want to ruin your friendship, avoid this “gift,” no matter how well-intentioned.

Also, never buy lingerie as a holiday gift for a friend.

young woman hates holiday gift

Lingerie is another highly personal item that is a gift to a significant other, not a friend.

Tchotchkes

Friends don’t buy friends tchotchkes for a holiday gift!

These things get thrown in the trash, donated to charity, or collect dust on a shelf.

woman in purple shapewear

Anything you received as a gift

Regifting is a big red flag to a friend.

The bestgift ideasare thoughtful, so avoid regifting.

No one wants to be reminded of their love handles during the holidays!

Knick knacks sitting on shelf

A diet cookbook

Diet cookbooks say much more about the giver than the recipient.

It’s not exactly the best way to spread holiday cheer!

After all, who wants to spend the holidays feeling guilty about what they’re eating?

ipad with regifting text

Self-help books

Don’t give a friend a self-help book as a holiday gift.

Pets

Pets are a huge responsibility and a commitment spanning many years.

Animals are living creatures, not objects, and therefore should never be given as gifts.

small weights, bands, exercise towel

Lewd gag gifts

Potty humor is funny… to kids.

Even if they laugh, they’ll probably be secretly horrified.

Cleaning supplies and tools

Cleaning supplies are never an acceptable gift, no matter the occasion.

Eat Fat, Get Think Cookbook

ADyson vacuumcleaner is expensive, but it’s impersonal and tells your friend they need to clean their house!

Gluten-containing cookies for a friend with agluten allergyor sugary candy for a friend with diabetes are quite offensive.

Giving your friend who is scared of clowns a clown doll is mean-spirited.

Self-help book with coffee

Anything from an infomercial

Don’t give a friend anything from an infomercial for a holiday gift.

(We’re looking at you,Snuggie!).

Give a friend a holiday gift you’d like to receive.

golden lab puppy

whoopee cushion

Bucket of cleaning supplies

Brightly colored candy swirls

scary clown

woman in Snuggie Blanket