It’s 3 a.m.: should you text your ex to get back together?

Most of your friends are screaming at you to not even allow the thought to grow.

You guys broke up for a reason, but you really miss them.

Brooke Elliott on red carpet in 2012

It could work this time.

Well, statistics aren’t on your side.

Kevin Thompson, owner of the websiteEx Back Permanently, conducted a study with nearly 4,000 participants.

Brooke Elliott and Brandon Quinn in A Country Christmas Harmony

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleckare one of the most famous examples of celebrities who reunited after a breakup.

However, they’re not the only ones.Ben Stiller and Christine Taylorare another successful breakup and get-back together story.

There are many examples of famous exes reuniting stories.

Brooke Elliott in A Country Christmas Harmony

The pair are instantly reunited when she returns to her hometown for a Christmas concert special.

A lot has changed since they were together.

Luke adopted his nephew and Chrissy became a music superstar.

Brandon Quinn and Brooke Elliott in A Country Christmas Harmony

At their core, their values haven’t changed.

However, their experiences matured them and made them more reflexive and forgiving.

He wants one thing for their future and she wants another.

It’s also a case of miscommunication.

She also learns that she needs to change a few things to allow herself another chance with him.

They both know the importance of compromising in a relationship.

According toPsychology Today, being unsupportive and not communicating are two of the top ten reasons for a breakup.

These reasons help lead to Chrissy and Luke’s breakup.

Being more supportive, communicating, and compromising help them start over.

Having an open and honest conversation helps show the couple’s commitment to making things work.

She explains what led to her decisions to leave.

They both acknowledge the past mistakes in their relationship and the door opens for a new beginning.

She doesn’t erase their past but looks towards their future.

“A Country Christmas Harmony” premieres on Lifetime on November 18 at 8:00 pm EST.