Mosting is approaching a new relationship with enthusiasm and effort, then withdrawing unexpectedly.
Or they meant it in the moment, but don’t let their date know when their mind changes.
This is when mosters turn into ghosters.
However, learning to heal from dating disappointments can be a vital factor in your long-term romantic success.
What makes situationship breakups so hard?
The outlet’s go-to dating coach, Neely Steinburg, explained mosting as she’s seen it in dating.
What’s the most confusing part of a dissolving situationship?
She explained that in these relationships “you’re constantly in-between.
There is no container, and there are no rules.”
And common respect should be, but isn’t always, a given.
This feeling of possibility can be addicting, according toByrdie.
And when the unavailable party begins pulling away, you might experience withdrawal-like feelings.
So, how do we let go?
Ultimately, putting yourself out there may require reeling yourself back in when things don’t work out.
And, while burying your feelings may feel safer, it’s more damaging in the long term.
So, let yourself feel the hurt it will help move you toward your next best thing.
