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How long the long-distance relationship lastsreally comes down to several factors, primarily patience.
Moving for your partner (or vice versa) is not a decision to be made lightly.
Self-help author and bloggerMark Mansonwrote that “it’s too easy to overlook the mundane, yet important differences.
Believe it or not,there are things no one tells you about moving in together.
Take the time to learn them before cohabiting in a space permanently.
It’s important to temper your expectations with reality to give your relationship a chance.
Now suddenly there’s two people in the picture.
Communication both before and after moving in together is key to navigating this change.
Questions are your friend here.
Ask your partner about how they like to spend their weekends.
Ask them how they do their finances.
Are you going to be sharing the bills?
Who’s going to get the groceries?
Who’s paying the electricity bill?
Learn their habits and share your own.
Come to an understanding that both of you are comfortable with.
It’s important to have an open mind and honest discussions when navigating these topics.
Remember that every couple goes through this phase.
It’s just a little trickier with long-distance relationships.
Store them away, at least until your new love settles into your shared space together.
Better yet, focus on creating a truly communal living situation.
The important thing is to create a space where both of you feel comfortable and at home.
What do you want your home to look like?
Do you like airy spaces and cheery curtains?
Are scented candles important for you as a nighttime routine?
Introduce your partner to your family and friends and encourage them to make friends of their own.
When you were living in different countries, space would’ve probably been the last thing on your minds.
The thousands of miles between each other were enough.
Enjoy your well-earned time together.
