When you have vastly different communication styles with someone, it can take some time to recognize them.

Perhaps you are someone who prefers listening over talking or enjoys in-person conversations over phone calls and texts.

It is also very normal to act differently around various people.

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Unfortunately, not all of these dynamics will work for everyone.

Therefore, this might actually be the perfect opportunity to explain how much or how little texting you enjoy.

Are the messages becoming a distraction?

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Is it causing you to stay glued to your phone?

Do you simply not enjoy talking to this person all day long?

Understanding the relationship dynamic you want to build with this person will help guide your approach.

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This may cause you to cut contact in a less respectful way.

Ultimately, there are many ways to convey that less communication is what you desire.