Friendships are supposed to feel safe and supportive, but what if they don’t?
This might be a sign that you’re stuck in a toxic friendship.
But can a toxic friendship ever really be fixed?
If it’s only you wanting to change the dynamic, it’s pretty unlikely that anything will change.
However, your friend might not realize they’re being toxic until you tell them.
If your bestie acts defensively, note that the relationship probably won’t improve any time soon.
A friendship that seems to bring out the worst in you may also be difficult to fix.
These are serious warning signs that a friendship isn’t worth saving.
For example, you’re able to say, “I feel uncomfortable when you gossip about people.
Can we talk about other things?
If you continue messaging me to gossip, I won’t respond.”
You may also want to adjust how you approach your friendship.
If a toxic person is slow to change their ways, consider interacting with them less.
Remember, friend breakups can be painful but not as painful as staying in a destructive friendship.
