“I don’t want to hear what you should’ve done.
You were not honest.
That doesn’t work for me,” Tara responded.

“So that’s it?
You just throw away whatever this was, that easily?”
“It is not easy.

And you threw it away,” Tara concluded in the scene.
Throughout their relationship, Whistler and Tara kept their romance a secret from their fellow NCIS agents.
As for the team finding out … they will, indeed," Silber told TVLine.
“But there’s a bit of softening to Kate.
Lucy brings out this beautiful side of Kate that she’s starting to embrace.
It’s a bit of a bumpy journey, and there’s going to be ups and downs.
I’ll just say that.”