Let’s face it: Not all couples are meant to last.

Some people can go years into a committed relationship before realizing the romance fizzled out years ago.

Many can start to feel stuck in a relationship out of necessity.

Lesbian couple displaying awkward tension

But just because you love the other person doesn’t necessarily mean you’re in love.

The decision lies in how happy you are together.

Wondering if you’re trulyhappy in your relationship?

Black couple having a disagreement

Feelings of frustration or irritation could be early signs of trouble in paradise,BetterHelpsays.

Your growing dislike can lead to a loss of attraction to one another, which further damages the relationship.

Urges of being with someone else are pretty direct signs that you’re not happy in your current relationship.

Black couple holding hands

Be ready to listen and learn what might be bothering them about you.

You might even consider speaking with a counselor or therapist for personal or couples treatment.

There might be past occurrences that are still impacting your relationship dynamic.

Talking to work through the pain and trauma can lead to happier days ahead.

Practice complimenting each other more often.

Don’t beafraid to pack on the intimacyand public displays of affection.

By spearheading the bonding initiatives, you’re setting the perfect example for your spouse to follow.

The shift in your relationship could help ward off your fantasies about other people.

But if they don’t, it could be time to end the relationship and go your separate ways.