The reality, as we have learned with time, was far from ideal.

Since then, interviews, books, and documentaries have further shed light on just how tense things became.

That’s when the Cambridges invited the Sussexes to spend Christmas with them."

Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton looking at each other

The argument quickly became the wedge that firmly separated the sisters-in-law.

Not just Prince Harry, I think probably the world wanted them to become best friends."

And you saw them all very close, very happy, very comfortable with each other."

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle engagement announcement

When asked if she was alright, Meghan agreed that she was “not really okay.”

I’m told she has reached out to Meghan and spoken to her on the phone.

Kate feels sorry for her and knows that Meghan is struggling."

Prince William, Harry, Meghan Markle, & Kate Middleton in church

“[Kate] didn’t look overjoyed.

To be honest I think Kate has taken it all badly.

“She feels exhausted and trapped,” the source said.

Princess Charlotte and Kate Middleton at Harry’s wedding

And I’ve forgiven her.

“Kate felt it was all sorted, so to have it brought up again was mortifying.

“Even when Will and Kate came over, and I had met her for the first time… “I was a hugger, always been a hugger.

Kate Middleton kissing Meghan Markle’s cheek

I didn’t realize that that’s really jarring for a lot of Brits.

I guess I started to understand very quickly that the formality on the outside carried through on the inside.

That there is a forward-facing way of being.”

Kate Middleton & Meghan Markle sitting together at Wimbledon

Kate, meanwhile, was not a fan of this narrative about her and quickly retaliated.

She is warm and friendly and greets everyone with a big hug and kiss.

It comes naturally to her to be like that.”

Meghan Markle & Kate Middleton sitting together

Clearly, the war was not at all close to being over.

Prince William, Harry, Meghan Markle, & Kate Middleton in church

Prince William and Kate Middleton visiting volunteers

Kate Middleton & Meghan Markle walking outside together

Kate Middleton & Meghan Markle in church together

Meghan Markle and Prince Harry walking down steps

Prince William, Harry, Meghan Markle, & Kate Middleton walkabout after queen’s death