Countless tips on romance are geared toward every aspect of the dating process.
But a new practice in the dating arena has left even the pros scrambling for answers.
In the book, she introduces the three-month no-kissing rule that many experts swear by.

But it garnered a lot of pushback.
Do you want a good kisser or a good spouse?
So why should lip-locking be banned for three months?

Dating coach Chantal Heide believes so.
But Heide said the three-month rule is meant to weed out those people.
Essentially, anyone unwilling to be patient is unsuitable for a relationship.
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Ultimately, dating is trial and error.