Human beings arenaturally driven to flirtwith those to whom we’re attracted, whether we realize it or not.
But it isn’tonlyabout continuing our line.
But there are scientifically proven ways to get someone to take notice or to even fall in love.
Here’s everything you oughta know to be able to flirt like a pro.
According toPsychology Today, women in public settingssend non-verbal cues to those that they’re interested in.
The more cues that are thrown out, the better the chances of scoring a mutual flirtation.
The preference stems from what Graff calls “invasion of personal space.”
So, if you’re trying to approach a man, confirm you come from the side.
And if you’re interested in a woman, it’s better to introduce yourself by approaching her head-on.
It’s also important to present yourself in an approachable way, according to Graff.
The reason behind it has to do with changing gender roles.
All three are pretty easy to spot.
And the direct approach is exactly that something like, “You’re gorgeous.
Can I buy you a drink?”
The results of the study indicated that neither men nor women have much interest in cheesy one-liners.
People are terrible at knowing when they’re being flirted with.
“A happy facial expression could even compensate for relative unattractiveness,” the study read.
So presenting genuine happiness can actually lead to relationship fulfillment.
Of course, it’s important to keep in mind cultural norms.
Dress the part
We’ve already established how nonverbal cues work to show interest in another person.
But it doesn’t end at eye contact and hand gestures.
Those on the red background were deemed to be more physically attractive than those on the white one.
Sounds crazy, but it’s true.
Aron separated two groups of people into pairs, and then had them talk for 45 minutes.
To someone else?"
Why haven’t you told them yet?"
Check your body language
Jeffrey Hall has done a lot of research on flirting.
Other obvious ones to look out for?
Make her laugh
Everyone appreciates a good sense of humor.
The reason has to do with ingrained social dominance.
It concluded that women use laughter, particularly with men, to show their interest via social submission.
So a good sense of humor really isthatimportant, at least if you want to flirt successfully.
