Anyone who’s ever been in one that has lasted a while would tell you that.

So you might be wondering, just how important is “we-talk” in a relationship?

And what does research have to say about it?

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77 couples who had children of preschool age took part in the survey.

How did it make you feel?

You probably felt validated, supported, and seen.

husbands engaging in “we-talk” with social worker

In fact, a differentstudyhas looked at the particular challenges people with different attachment styles have in this area.

could get your partner into the same spirit.

“The fact is, relationships are a table for two.

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