With the state of dating today, some of us may be longing for the simpler days of dating.
But some of us are so done with being single.
The dating world both virtually and in-person has lots of obstacles lined up before us.
We all know the fear ofbeing ghosted.
However, another awful dating trend has gained traction, and we just can’t shake it off.
But what is it?
The term roaching appears to have been coined byAskMenin 2017.
Hiding the fact that you are sleeping with multiple people doesn’t just make you a jerk.
If you suspect your partner is roaching you, this is a conversation you especially want to have.
And if you want to have multiple casual relationships, be upfront with your partners.
“Any relationship requires communication and honesty, but triple this for polyamorous ones.”
The same rule applies for roaching.
Someone who won’t commit to plans or constantly flakes could be roaching you.
Blatant dishonesty and nonverbal cues are helpful for determining if someone has been roaching you, as well.
Another common sign of roaching is emotional distance between you and your partner.
It’s time to have an honest conversation with your partner and see how to move forward from there.
“And that starts with having a real conversation about what’s going on.”
This could be the time to have the DTR conversation and determine if this relationship is worth pursuing.
Remember: there is no shame in looking after your sexual well-being.
Can a relationship survive being roached?
Your relationship does not have to be over if you have been roached.
Be clear on your expectations, practice safe sex, and get regular STD testing.
