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In the best of times, her life has seemed like a fairy tale.

In the worst of times, however, it’s been a nightmare.

Fantasia Barrino at an event in 2004

Yes,Fantasia Barrino has had sad life story.

Even after her big break, Barrino hit some devastating lows.

That makes her one of the biggest inspirations to ever emerge from reality television.

Fantasia Barrino in a photo for American Idol in 2004

Fantasia Barrino also grew up singing in church, where her mother and grandmother were ministers.

Her father wasn’t the only one to notice Barrino’s talent.

Barrino was just 9 years old.

Fantasia Barrino on a beach in 2004, waving

Fantasia Barrino dropped out of high school

Fantasia Barrino’s childhood was not an easy one.

Then in high school, Barrino was raped by a fellow student.

The harassment soon grew to be too much to handle.

Fantasia Barrino performing in 2006

A boyfriend moved in with her, but didn’t treat her well.

Then at the age of 17, Barrino became pregnant.

“That’s when everybody seemed to give up on me,” she toldO, The Oprah Magazine.

Kelly Clarkson, Ruben Studdard, and Fantasia Barrino in 2004

As Barrino put it, “I’d lost myself.”

She barely got by with government assistance.

“Living like that was hard,” she said.

Fantasia Barrinoat a Grammy event in 2009

As a single mom, Barrino alsohelped her grandmother run a day care facility.

“I had given up on myself,” she admitted toO, The Oprah Magazine.

However, watchingRuben Studdard win"American Idol" inspired her to fight for her own dreams.

Fantasia Barrino at the 2009 Grammy Awards

Instead of giving up, Barrino started praying.

The rest is history.

But the backlash just inspired Barrino to work even harder.

Fantasia Barrino at Disney in 2009

“I’m a strong woman now,” she toldMTV News.

“I fought so that my child can have the best.”

Barrino starred in the film as herself, impressing the world with her acting talents.

Fantasia Barrino performing at The Apollo in 2009

For Barrino, starring in the film was a challenge and not just because she was new to acting.

Filming the movie also required her to relive some of the most difficult moments of her life.

“It’s definitely harder than it looks,” she toldThe Washington Post.

Fantasia Barrino n the red carpet in Vegas in 2010

Notably, she has a lot in common with the character of Celie, whoovercomes considerable adversityin the show.

“When I put my outfit on, I’m no longer Fantasia,” she said.

“I am Celie…

Fantasia Barrino at the 2010 BET Awards

I am that woman when I’m on that stage and people are being touched.”

Years later, Barrino looked back at that dark time as the biggest regret of her life.

She added that she would do it all over again if she could.

Fantasia Barrino at an event in Culver City in 2010

“I would change that,” she confessed.

However, that wasn’t what had people so concerned about the relationship.

“I’m regular,” she said.

Fantasia Barrino performing in New Orleans in 2011

“I don’t like the whole celebrity thing.”

That’s a far cry from, say,Oprah’s incredibly lavish lifestyle!

“It’s all me,” she said.

Fantasia Barrino at an American Idol event in 2012

The transition came after years of going head-to-head with record execs.

Barrino knew what she wanted and was confident enough to go get it.

“I don’t want people to stick me in a box,” she toldPeople.

Fantasia Barrino at a BET event in 2019

“I don’t want to miss anything,” said Barrino.

“When you’re on tour, it’s too much.”

On the “Yes, Girl!”

Fantasia Barrino posing

She already hasa couple of stage rolesunder her belt.

She’s also spoken out about the fact that she’s not the only artist who has struggled financially.

“And we smile and come out and put on a good show.

Fantasia Barrino with husband

But in real life some of them are struggling and we don’t have it.”

“He would call and check up on me,” she said.

“He was one of the ones, when I lost everything, he came and blessed me.

Fantasia Barrino performing

And I thank him for that.”

“And we were asked.

I was like, ‘No, so what?’

Fantasia Barrino’s sorority sisters

you might hear me crying, you hear me sniffling.

Shouldn’t it be that way?”

“This ain’t your mama’s ‘Color Purple,'” Winfrey toldVanity Fair.

“I’m glad that I didn’t allow that door to close,” Barrino admitted toET Online.

“We can feel our ancestors.

So, it’s heavy.

But it also reminds us that they paved the way for us.

Fantasia Barrino became an honorary sorority member

The year 2022 was a big one for Fantasia Barrino.

“We are so proud to welcome Soror @tasiasword into the sisterhood,” wrote the sorority onInstagram.

Barrino posted avideoon her own Instagram of her initiation into the sorority.

“I Love My Sisters,” she wrote in anotherpost.

Perthe sorority’s website, Sigma Gamma Rho, Sorority, Inc. was founded in 1922.