After recently divorcing her husband, Sebastian Bear-McClard, Emily Ratajkowoski has taken to the dating scene,Glamourreports.

I really wanted to be chosen," she told the magazine.

I really enjoyed these parts of them.

Emily Ratajkowski posing

I really didn’t like these other parts."

Ratajkowski is taking a much more selective approach to who she dates,spotting red flagsand taking notes.

With good reason, she’s being ruthless.

Emily Ratajkowski giving graduation speech

To put it succinctly, she’s an absolute powerhouse.

But being a powerhouse has evidently made dating men more frustrating for her.

You[’re independent].'

Emily Ratajkowski posing

According to psychologists, there’s a reason that many men can act this way.

This implies it can be lost and isn’t inherent.

Cultural stereotypes expect men in heterosexual relationships to be the “breadwinners” or the “protector.”

So when they aren’t, they can feel anxiety and even heightened aggression, says the source.

This seems to pinpoint precisely what Ratajkowski is struggling with.

Herconfidenceand success have come head-to-head with men struggling to feel secure in themselves.

Additionally, she points out that there are many traits she wishes men would focus on.

That would be great."

However, many follow their gender role expectations out of fear that their peers will disapprove of them.

To have along-lasting relationship, communication and respect are essential.