Traditionally, showers are held to give the bride gifts for her new home.

However, these days, a majority of couples have built their shared homes prior to getting engaged.

Having a joint wedding shower is also a great way to incorporate both partners' families.

Woman opens bridal shower gift

Even when a party is designed to celebrate her, she usually ends up planning and executing it.

“Most everything, from magazines to wedding shows, was all about women,” he explained.

Put your future spouse in charge of the playlist or the invitations, and let their imagination run wild.

Couple clinks champagne glasses

Try not to stifle their input even if their taste doesn’t exactly align with your initial vision.

Let your individualities shine through with elements you both enjoy.

After all, the party is about your life together!

Couple smiles on laptop