Fancier venues can cost up to $150 per guest.
Like weddings, bridal showers are steeped in centuries of tradition they evolved around western gender roles.
As the story goes, a wealthy Dutch girl fell in love with a poor miller’s son.

The girl’s father disapproved, promising to withhold her dowry to change her mind.
Though bridal showers still involve friendly gift-giving, the actual “showering” element no longer comes into play.
Many showers also have a dress code, be it spoken or unspoken.

Ultimately, “Go with fun, comfortable, and whatever makes you feel your best self.”
Ultimately, it’s better to be a bit too fancy than suck in jeans.
Alternatively, wear a cute sundress with dressed-down flats or chunky-heeled boots (perMartha Stewart).

For inspiration, check out this floral dress fromLulus.
Will it be held indoors or outdoors?
Will there be a seasonal theme?
The answers to these questions can help you decide what’s appropriate to wear.
In the summer, it is safe to lean into shorter midi skirts and dresses."
Choose your color palette around the seasons, too.
At a fall bridal shower, for instance, dress in warm coppers and yellows.
Dress down or up with layers: a leather jacket, ora sheer cardigan.