The Bachelor’sKatie Thurston certainly has a knack for shocking people into paying attention to her.

The adult toy she handed over toMatt JamesduringThe Bachelorpremiere, perThe Hollywood Gossip.

The respectably-sized toy also caught the attention of James, who couldn’t help cracking up.

Katie Thurston from The Bachelor smiling

But she doesn’t seem too concerned about it herself.

Nor is she willing to settle.

Her TikTok adventures seem to be a transition for theBachelorcontestant.

Katie Thurston from The Bachelor posing

“If I died tomorrow, I wouldn’t be happy with what I’ve accomplished.

I followed ‘the rules’ of life.

An entire decade to pass without feeling fulfilled?”

Katie Thurston from The Bachelor smiling

I lost people along the way.

And that’s ok. We aren’t meant to just everyone."

Is Thurston’s TikTok channel for you?

Katie Thurston smiling

Since her first kiss and today, Thurston’s evolved.

it’s all about creating the right vibe with Katie!"

But don’t let her goofy side (or herlove forsparkly jackets) fool you.

Katie Thurston is looking for “a mature man who has ambitions to succeed in everything he does.”

And she’s not afraid to go the distance to ensure she has the right people in her life.

RememberMarie Kondo’sdecluttering mantra: does it spark joy?

“I like to also apply it to people,” Thurstonadmits.

She’s taken to asking: “Does this person spark joy in your life?

Is there a reason they can continue to be in your life?”