Without that spark, many first dates never lead to second dates.
Though it may be the standard when determining compatibility, it can also be elusive.
Thankfully, some relationship experts believe that quick chemistry isn’t a requirement for finding “the one.”
“Sparks don’t mean someone will be a good fit for you as a long-term partner.”
In some cases, sparks may even signal trouble ahead.
Here’s why sparks mean little in the search for love and what you should focus on instead.
Moreover, what you might believe are sparks are actually anxious jitters.
Besides disguising anxiety, sparks might also distract from a person’s red flags.
Not every spark is related to relationship anxiety or narcissistic charisma.
Still, early chemistry doesn’t always hold up in the long run.
What matters more than early-relationship chemistry
If sparks don’t say much about compatibility, what does?
Can you openly express yourself on the first date, without fearing judgment?
Does your dating partner share their thoughts and feelings, or do they seem to be holding back?
How you communicate can say a lot more about your future as a couple than butterflies in your stomach.
