The origins of this term on the internet can be traced back to 2009 Twitter, according toThe Cut.
Especially since the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic, it’s become a phrase with pretty much universal appeal.
Here’s how to let your more self-indulgent side take the wheel when it comes to dating.
In the wake of the pandemic, there’s been an increased push-back against aesthetic-driven content.
In the early stages of dating, we’re often committed to putting our best foot forward.
However, it’s honesty that will strengthen your relationship, not perfection.
In other words, if you sometimes use your shirt instead of a napkin, that’s okay.
If you like to sing show tunes on road trips, go for it.
Talk to your potential partner about everything from pet peeves and politics to baggage and boundaries.
Plus, confirm your commitment to being “that girl” isn’t suffocating your inner monster.
After all, hiding your quirks to satisfy a partner is never a good sign.
As neuropsychologist Sanam Hafeez, Psy.D.
Sure, loving yourself means embracing your quirks.
