Dating is one of the most confusing, nerve-wracking spaces to navigate.
And, if neither of you has any pre-existing connection to each other (i.e.
mutual friends,) you are working with a completely blank slate.
In these situations, it’s not unusual to want to be the best version of yourself.
It might sound contradictory that your best attribute could be your downfall.
In aYouTubevideo, dating specialist and coach Mathew Hussey refers to this as your “superpower.”
He then explained for us to be engaged, someone needs to offer something complex.
A unique mixture of talents and interests is what makes someone stand out and captivate us.
That contrast is unexpected.
That contrast is engaging."
When we want to pursue someone romantically, we get curious about them.
We want to know more about who they are, building intimacy and perhaps even a relationship.
Clinical psychologist Bobbi Wegner, Psy.D.
toldMindBodyGreenthat sharing the layers of your particular personality is a key factor in relationships of all stages.
